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毕业季宠物先搬家 搬走了心病也是心药

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 进入5月,高校里逐渐有了毕业季的氛围,一些毕业生开始提前往家乡或新的工作地运寄行李。而伴随着行李一起前往“迁徙”的,还有他们饲养的各种宠物,淘宝上关于“托运宠物”的相关服务也是不在少数。


  毕业季来临,学校生活即将成为过去,此时搬走宠物,是学生走出学校走向社会的标志,是搬走心病面对社会压力的过渡,更是缓解即将面临的社会难题的心药。

  “表面风光,内心彷徨;容颜未老,心已沧桑”,这是很多高校学生的共鸣。随着时代的发展,竞争日趋激烈残酷,大学生早已不再有往日风光,随之而来的是日渐增大的压力。中国疾病预防控制中心调查显示,全国约有20%的大学生存在不同程度地心理障碍。就业、考研、人际关系是困扰大学生的重要心病。其中就业压力又像是一座大山一般,让人喘不开气也挪不开地。2014届毕业生刚刚目睹2013年“史上最难就业季”的惨状,又要无奈接受比2013年再增加28万人的727万人的就业人数,也难怪有学生表示“从进大学校门第一天就开始焦虑就业”。


  《中国青年报》社会调查中心推出的“2014年应届本科生就业调查”显示,在476名受访学生中,52.3%的人认为就业形势严峻。空前的压力下,更多的是焦躁与烦闷。而期望值过高的学生,在理想与现实的差距中产生自责、自卑的心理,稍有不慎,便是令人扼腕的悲剧。近日,广东省中山大学历史学系2012级硕士研究生在宿舍自缢身亡就再一次引起人们对高校学生承受巨大压力的重视。就业压力与论文考核往往是毕业前艰难的一道坎,每年今天,多少学子在这道坎面前跌足长叹,崩溃落泪。

  每到毕业季,总是泪水与欢笑交织,而“毕业”似乎总是离不开伤感与落寞。各种个性十足的拍照留念,往往是最后的狂欢,也是无奈的辛酸。而此时如何缓解压力则是一大关键。其实对于大学生可不可以在宿舍饲养宠物,社会上一直有争议。教育专家认为应当禁止,因为宿舍是公共空间,宠物会影响到他人的正常生活。但是“存在即合理”,宠物的存在很大程度上是学生缓解心理压力的良药。

  瑟谱尔认为,宠物可以聆听,它们貌似理解,但又绝不提问或评价。照料宠物需要极大的责任心,而这种照料充实了我们的生活。感到被需要,能够强烈地激发生活目标的确立。动物学家詹姆士瑟普尔解释,出现这一结果的部分原因是宠物可以给予主人一种特有的精神支持,而它在人际交往中则是非常罕见甚或不存在的。他声称,动物的沉默乃恩惠而非负担。语言的弊病是既可传达内心的情感与思想,也可用于欺诈、误导、批评和侮辱。

  都说“心病还需心药治”,虽说竞争残酷的现状下,根治心病显然并非易事,但是能缓解压力总还是好的。况且在一定程度上说压力也是前进的必需品,而宠物的出现则是合情合理。不管是学校生活还是工作生活,现代人总避免不了独居或是心灵的寂寞,一只宠物的陪伴安抚或许是最好的良药。

  毕业,离开学校,走向社会,却并不意味着压力的终结,反而是更大挑战的来临。社会工作更为复杂的人际关系,更加困难的工作要求,独自一人的落寞与孤独,种种都是萦绕心头的无奈挥之不去。毕业了,带走了行李,送走了青春。将朝夕相伴的宠物送走,带到即将生活的又一地方,正是将心病从学校带走,将心药带来到社会,开始崭新的旅途。

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